Dating

How To Date After Mormonism

A field guide for people whose old dating scripts involved group prayer and a curfew.

KolobMingle Editorial - 7 min read

Leaving Mormonism can make dating feel like being dropped into the ocean with a laminated copy of the Strength of Youth pamphlet and no map.

Start by noticing what still feels automatic. Do you over-explain your boundaries? Do you confuse spiritual intensity with intimacy?

Then build new scripts. Ask better questions. Go on dates that create actual information. Let chemistry and safety matter at the same time.